Men Talk Same Amount of Words as Women -- MEDICA - World Forum for Medicine

Matthias R. Mehl, an assistant professor of psychology at The University of Arizona, and other researchers set out to challenge the findings in a recent book written by a noted neuropsychiatrist that "a woman uses about 20,000 words a day, while a man uses only about 7,000." In a series of studies conducted over six years, Mehl and the others recorded the conversations of nearly 400 U.S. and Mexican male and female university students.

To catch all of this chit-chat, they developed an electronically-activated recorder that digitally, and unobtrusively, logged the daily conversations of those who wore the device. The results: women in the study spoke a daily average of 16,215 words during their waking hours, versus an average of 15,669 words for men. True, the women win, but not by a statistically significant margin. Mehl also noted that there are "very large individual differences around this mean."

"What's a 500-word difference, compared to the 45,000-word difference between the most and the least talkative persons" Just to illustrate the magnitude of difference, among the three most talkative males in the study, one used 47,000 words. The least talkative male spoke just a little more than 500," Mehl said. Mehl confessed to a concern about the homogeneity of the sample - only college students - but said that the study showed no support for the idea that women have larger lexical budgets than men, any more than it did that gender differences in daily word use have a basis in evolution.

Still, the idea that women use nearly three times as many words a day as men has taken on the status of an "urban legend" and is the stuff of what marriage counsellors use in therapy. But the last word, from this study, is that "the widespread and highly publicized stereotype about female talkativeness and male reticence is unfounded."; Source: University of Arizona